I’m going to tell you what you probably already know… Everybody loves a people-pleaser. They’re the ones who are always really nice and considerate. They help out at a moment’s notice and never say no when asked for a favor. They make great employees because they’re ultra-reliable and pride themselves in going above and beyond the call of duty. In romantic relationships, they make it a point to take care of their partner’s every want and need. So who wouldn’t like a people-pleaser? Unfortunately, people-pleasers almost never like themselves.